Saturday, April 6, 2013
Top 5 Favorite Settings in Buffy the Vampire Slayer
You can't hear Buffy the Vampire Slayer and not think about that charming little town she comes from. Sunnydale is synonymous with its little sign that keeps getting knocked over by Spike and the graveyards Buffy roams and the hampster in Willow's room.
But the truly lovely thing about Buffy the Vampire Slayer is that Whedon didn't just stop after creating dynamic characters and amazing plots. He went further and wanted to make the small town of Sunnydale into a character itself. It's got a sunny exterior where people live and shop and sleep and eat, completely unaware of the things that go bump in the night. Then, you delve a littler bit deeper and it's got a darker side--the graveyards, the dead-end alleyways, and of course, the Hellmouth it's sitting on. Just like with a person, Sunnydale has a great blend of light and dark which is one of the reasons Buffy the Vampire Slayer is so great.
So I'm here today to talk about my top 5 favorite nook and crannies of good old Sunnydale and I hope you'll come with me to visit!
5) Sunnydale High's library- You all totally knew this one had to make the list. It's the first place the Scoobies and Giles came together so of course, it needed to be included. What I loved about the library was that on the surface, it seemed so normal. Rows and rows of books, a stuffy British librarian looking up as you walk in the door, a red-headed girl with her nose pointed to a computer screen and a metal cage to keep some of the pricer items. But then you look a little closer and start to see large, dusty tomes about angels and devils and vampires, oh my! You see a bouncy little blonde girl in the corner with headphones on, hitting a punching bag and sometimes you catch sight of a naked guy curled on the floor locked in the metal cage.
I loved how safe it felt. The library was the place for the Scoobies to meet. It's where Buffy found out she was destined to die and where they discovered Angel's dark past. But locked away safe in those walls, surrounded by books, it always felt like everything would be alright. The Scoobies worked together, studying and talking and plotting to get through the toughest supernatural problems and the worst social situations.
And then the Hellmouth opens up and a monster comes up out of the library floor and suddenly, their safe haven isn't so harmless now. It's sitting on top of such great evil that it can't contain it. To me, that scene symbolized how fragile youth can be and how things like safe places don't really exist in the real world. So many good and bad things happened there that I can't help but look at it with fond memories!
4) Sunnydale High After the Fire- I loved roaming the halls of Sunnydale with the Scooby Gang and discovering previously unexplored areas of their school. Like with all high schools, there were a lot of really good memories there. That's why going back to Sunnydale after the mayor goes crazy on it and they are forced to burn it down is one of the most profound experiences in the show and makes for one of my most memorable settings.
Sunnydale High's ruins are the literal translation of the Gang growing up. There is nothing to come back to so they have to go forward onto even scarier Big Bads with the reminder that you can never really go home. Watching them walk through the remains gave me goosebumps in the later episodes because I can remember it the way it was with them. Seeing it reduced to darkness and trash and burnt ruins is awful but I couldn't look away.
3) The Magic Box- I just said that you can never go home but you can find some place new to build on. With Giles' apartment and later, The Magic Box, that's exactly what the Scoobies did. However, right from the beginning, we know that The Magic Box isn't safe like the library was. The previous owners have been murdered, there are break-ins all the time and they have to clean up this store at least three times after Giles buys it but it is a place that has everything they need and a perfect excuse to talk vamps sans the weird looks.
Of the Scoobies bases, the inside of The Magic Box is the most interesting to look at in my opinion. I love that they are surrounded by the tools of their trade and can always find what they need. It also happens that one of my most memorable episodes "Tabula Rasa" occurs in The Magic Box. For those of you that don't remember, this is the episode where Willow is using magic like crazy and accidently makes the entire gang forget who they are. This makes Spike and Giles believe that Spike is his son due to their "nancy boy" accents and that Anya is engaged to Giles since they both own The Magic Box. I LOVED that episode and it was so fun how The Magic Box was used as several clues to help them "figure out" who they were and what they were doing before falling asleep.
2) Spike's Crypt- As a Spike fan, it's pretty lucky that I didn't add "under the tree in Buffy's yard" too since some of my favorite scenes are Spike chain smoking outside just waiting for her to come out so he can exchange some lame insults her way. But, I digress. So, back on topic, Spike's Crypt is a must for me. The reason being is that I loved seeing how it changed as Spike began to settle into his bachelor pad in the cementary. Not only did the top become a little more homey but he did amazing things with the underground part. I loved the rugs that were obvious stolen thrown across the floor mixed with the gigantic bed. I guess it's that odd mixture of dust and old things with new things like the borrowed chair and television that made me love any thing going on in this neck of the cementary.
One thing I could never figure out though was if he slept in the stone coffin above (which he is pictured in sometimes) or the bed down below (which he is pictured in sometimes). I also love that in the beginning, his crypt is sort of creepy but as he finds his place in the Scooby Gang, the crypt becomes a little more domesticated to the point where Buffy drops off Dawn to be babysat there. Also, it doesn't hurt that this scene was filmed there:
In case you don't remember, let me refresh your mind. This is the first kiss Spike and Buffy share where Buffy wants to kiss him. She disguises herself as Buffybot to discover what Spike told Glory while she tortured him. Spike tells her that he didn't reveal that Dawn was "the key" and Buffy says that she'll go tell Glory so Spike won't be hurt again. Spike tells her not to, that he'd rather die and it earns him this tiny kiss. Many more are to follow in his place but this is by far one of the sweetest.
Now... for my number 1 spot in Sunnydale...
1) Buffy's kitchen- In the show, Buffy's house is the one thing that always remains the same until the very end. People come and go from it, it turns into different things at different times and it isn't always safe but it is always hers and it is always there (until Sunnydale is no more). I could have done the entire house but I decided to be a little more specific and chose the kitchen.
I think of the kitchen as the wind down place. After a hard night of patroling, a killer fight with a big bad or with each other, the Scoobies wind up in the kitchen to top off the hectic day or night with a snack. When Joyce is alive, she is usually there with a snack ready to go and a happy smile and when it's just Buffy, the fridge is still almost always full. It's had some of the most intense character scenes (i.e. Spike and Buffy talk about their night in Touched, the Scoobies tell Spike that Buffy left in Season 7 when they didn't back her) but it was able to maintain its calming demeanor. They gather to discuss the end in the kitchen. When one of them reaches into the fridge for a soda, I as a viewer, know that everything is going to be okay, even if it isn't at that very second. Buffy's kitchen is my breathing room, it lets me feel like there is at least one place they can go to let everything sink in which is why it is my number one favorite spot in Sunnydale.
Honarable Mention:
I know that the Sunnydale Project is all about Buffy but I have to make a mention of LA and Angel. Since it's in LA, I didn't include it in my list but I have to get this awesome setting a shout out:
The Hyperion Hotel- This old hotel becomes Angel Investigation's base of operations after their old one was destroyed. I love that they are such a small agency yet they are located in this huge hotel full of rooms in various stages of decay. Angel always has the coolest places but Hyperion Hotel totally takes the cake in the awesome category. Plus, I think it's fun that as more people join their little investigation business, more and more rooms are fixed up to accommodate them. With each episode, we see a little more of the hotel and get to know a new room or corner.
So those are the places I'd love to visit if Buffy's Sunnydale was real. There are a ton more that I could add to this list: the Sunnydale cementary, Giles apartment, The Bronze, Angel's mansion, The Operative center and caves and more but I had to give you five and I'm pretty pleased with the list (and cheat) I came up with.
What do you think of my list? Which places would make your top five?
Friday, April 5, 2013
A (Greek) Fairy Tale in Photos: Zeus and Hera
Every Friday, I tell you a fairy tale exclusively through photos but now that I'm bringing it back, we're going to the Greek Gods! Get ready for some good times. Each week is a different theme and I search through Deviantart to find you the best of the best--whether they be pretty or spooky. All are welcome here! None of these photos are mine and you can always find a link to the proper owners underneath the photo in the caption area!
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This week, we are going to look at the Father of Gods Zeus and his first wife Hera. I've always liked these two together and since their searches didn't produce a lot of photography individually, I thought we could check out some family art.
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I think the Hera pictured ended up being cooler than the Zeus ones which kind of sucks. I love 9 in Zeus though and I think my favorites in Hera are 5 and 11. The colors in 11 are gorgeous and 5 is just so interesting to look at.
Which are your favorites?
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Top Ten Tuesday: Characters I Would Crush on if I Were a Fictional Character
Top Ten Tuesday was created by The Broke and the Bookish. Every week, they post a subject and the goal is to answer the question with your top ten picks. Once you've done it, link back to The Broke and the Bookish and check out what other bloggers have to say!
1) Four from Divergent series by Veronica Roth- Ever since I met the strong and silent Tobias, I couldn't help but fall madly in love. Though there is a lot to love about him, I really fell when he treated Tris like an equal. In the world he lives in that values strength, she could have easily be passed over because of her size but he saw the strength in her and for me, that's pretty much magic.
2) Noah Shaw from The Unbecoming of Mara Dyer series by Michelle Hodkin- Holy cow! I didn't stand a chance with Noah. I was as unprepared as Mara was. I'd actually read about Shaw's character before hand and was completely prepared to hate his guts because he is so not my type. He smokes and is full of himself and yuck. But then we got to know him with Mara and he was so charming and sincere underneath all of his rebellion. Now he's just my British, crazy-reckless, caring and kind book boyfriend and I don't ever want to be without him.
3) Edward Cullen from Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer- I know what you're thinking but block out all the hype and everything you've heard and think back to the moment when you read the first book. When there was nothing but you and Bella and Edward in that sullen, rainy town of Forks. I'm talking about that Edward. The one that was personal to you before all of the hype. I'm woman enough to admit that I fell in love reading those books and that that is the experience I hold on to.
4) Finnick from The Hunger Games series by Suzanne Collins-I really loved Peeta too but I wanted to just pick one and my favorite is Finnick. I think it's because he was never a potential match for Katniss but rather her friend. His story is so sweet and sad and I love that there is more to Finnick than first meets the eye.
5) Adam from Shatter Me series by Tahereh Mafi- There is something about how gruff Adam was in the beginning mixed with how sweet he ended up being that made him impossible to ignore. I love his soldier exterior and how devoted he was to Juliette and his little brother.
6) Perry from Under the Never Sky series by Veronica Rossi- Perry holds the same allure for me as Four. He's quiet which means he observes the world on a deeper level than most people. Plus, half the chapters in his perspective really helped to soften his character.
7) Cas from Anna Dressed in Blood series by Kendare Blake- Yeah, I describe Cas as a mix of Sam and Dean from Supernatural. Of course he's going to be on my list. I love that not only did Cas seem like a real boy but I loved his tough as nails exterior. Though he didn't want to make friends, once he had them he would do anything to keep them safe.
8) Jay from The Body Finder series by Kimberly Derting- Jay started out as the best friend. I love storied where best friend fall in love (believable) and to me, this is the best example of that kind of story. Jay was kind and popular and he loved Violet which is adorable. Plus I love that even though Violet can do something that is a little off and he is normal, he still completely accepts her.
10) Mr. Darcy from Price and Prejudice by Jane Austen- Of course he is going to make my list. Darcy is the original hottie in my opinion and his and Elizabeth's relationship defines heat. I absolutely love Darcy because he is kind without expecting thanks and socially awkward.
Which boys made your list?
I'm not quite sure why I have to be fictional character to crush on these guys since I crush on them anyway but I'll play along. Here are my top ten favorite boys I've encountered in literature so far in no particular order!Top Ten Characters I Would Crush on if I Were a Fictional Character
1) Four from Divergent series by Veronica Roth- Ever since I met the strong and silent Tobias, I couldn't help but fall madly in love. Though there is a lot to love about him, I really fell when he treated Tris like an equal. In the world he lives in that values strength, she could have easily be passed over because of her size but he saw the strength in her and for me, that's pretty much magic.
2) Noah Shaw from The Unbecoming of Mara Dyer series by Michelle Hodkin- Holy cow! I didn't stand a chance with Noah. I was as unprepared as Mara was. I'd actually read about Shaw's character before hand and was completely prepared to hate his guts because he is so not my type. He smokes and is full of himself and yuck. But then we got to know him with Mara and he was so charming and sincere underneath all of his rebellion. Now he's just my British, crazy-reckless, caring and kind book boyfriend and I don't ever want to be without him.
3) Edward Cullen from Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer- I know what you're thinking but block out all the hype and everything you've heard and think back to the moment when you read the first book. When there was nothing but you and Bella and Edward in that sullen, rainy town of Forks. I'm talking about that Edward. The one that was personal to you before all of the hype. I'm woman enough to admit that I fell in love reading those books and that that is the experience I hold on to.
4) Finnick from The Hunger Games series by Suzanne Collins-I really loved Peeta too but I wanted to just pick one and my favorite is Finnick. I think it's because he was never a potential match for Katniss but rather her friend. His story is so sweet and sad and I love that there is more to Finnick than first meets the eye.
5) Adam from Shatter Me series by Tahereh Mafi- There is something about how gruff Adam was in the beginning mixed with how sweet he ended up being that made him impossible to ignore. I love his soldier exterior and how devoted he was to Juliette and his little brother.
6) Perry from Under the Never Sky series by Veronica Rossi- Perry holds the same allure for me as Four. He's quiet which means he observes the world on a deeper level than most people. Plus, half the chapters in his perspective really helped to soften his character.
7) Cas from Anna Dressed in Blood series by Kendare Blake- Yeah, I describe Cas as a mix of Sam and Dean from Supernatural. Of course he's going to be on my list. I love that not only did Cas seem like a real boy but I loved his tough as nails exterior. Though he didn't want to make friends, once he had them he would do anything to keep them safe.
8) Jay from The Body Finder series by Kimberly Derting- Jay started out as the best friend. I love storied where best friend fall in love (believable) and to me, this is the best example of that kind of story. Jay was kind and popular and he loved Violet which is adorable. Plus I love that even though Violet can do something that is a little off and he is normal, he still completely accepts her.
9) Ren from Nightshade series by Andrea Cremer- Can we say yummy? Ren is hot in a way that very few characters can be plus he is able to overcome a lot of his negatives. I think in a lot of stories, it is easy to pass off the main character's intended because she didn't pick him. That's what Ren is. Yet he is also interesting and challenges her and is sexy and sweet. Love him!
Which boys made your list?
Monday, April 1, 2013
Doctor Who 50th Year Anniversay Announcement
Guys! If you were around in November then it will come as no surprise to you that I'm blogging about this and for those of you who are newer, now you know too. Doctor Who is my favorite show ever and some big news just broke.
This year is the 50th year Doctor Who has been on the telly and as a fan of the show, I've had my fingers crossed that they were going to do something big. And by big, I mean something that invovled my all time favorite Doctor and companion.
Well, yesterday they announced that they were.
David Tennant, who played the 10th Doctor, and Billie Piper, who portrayed Rose Tyler, have been confirmed to come back and reprise their roles for the episode.
I'm really hoping they will come back as Metacrisis Doctor and Rose so we get to see how they are holding up but I guess an appearance of 10th Doctor and Rose on their adventures wouldn't be horrible either.
Heck, I'll just be happy to see their face and get to see the two Doctors together!
Anyone else as stoked about this news as I am?
This year is the 50th year Doctor Who has been on the telly and as a fan of the show, I've had my fingers crossed that they were going to do something big. And by big, I mean something that invovled my all time favorite Doctor and companion.
Well, yesterday they announced that they were.
David Tennant, who played the 10th Doctor, and Billie Piper, who portrayed Rose Tyler, have been confirmed to come back and reprise their roles for the episode.
I'm really hoping they will come back as Metacrisis Doctor and Rose so we get to see how they are holding up but I guess an appearance of 10th Doctor and Rose on their adventures wouldn't be horrible either.
Heck, I'll just be happy to see their face and get to see the two Doctors together!
Anyone else as stoked about this news as I am?
Saturday, March 30, 2013
Saturday Discussion: YA vs. NA
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the difference between Young Adult (YA) and New Adult (NA) because I've started a manuscript that could work as either. So I've been asking myself what the central differences are and I thought it might make a good discussion this week.
So what are the differences between YA and NA?
For me, it all boils down to the central question of the book.
YA is all about discovering who you want to become.
NA is discovering how the person you've decided you want to be fits into the world.
All the YA I books I can think of have the character come to some realization near the end of the novel that allows them to discover who they are. They learn something about themselves.
In The Hunger Games, Katniss does anything to protect herself for most of the novel but when she is forced to kill Peeta to win, she decides they will both kill themselves rather than be forced to kill each other. She learns that she cares for him and that shapes the rest of the series.
In Shatter Me, Juliette feels like she deserves to be locked up because her touch can kill but when she realizes she can't hurt Adam, she decides to see herself differently which allows her to fight for her life.
In If I Stay, Mia isn't sure whether she should let go and die when her entire family dies, but through listening how her friends and family see her, she decides to stay.
All of these stories allow the characters to see themselves in a different light which allows them to become who they are. They discover the type of people they want to become and prove it by actively becoming these people in the end.
I feel like New Adult takes this idea and explores what happens after. How can new Katniss live in the world when she's allowed herself to have more attachments than just her immediate family? How can Juliette learn to live with her power now that she's decided to fight for her life? Now that Mia sees herself as the people she loves does and gets a second shot of life, how is she going to use it?
In YA, the characters recieve the means to grow up. They find the path they want to take. I think NA explores them going down that path. It tests the people they discovered and sometimes it changes them.
I've been holding off my judgement on this emerging category because I wasn't sure it would last but I've decided I don't care. I love that authors are writing stories for the scary time between transitioning from living at home with minimal responsibility to living on your own with all of it. Because let's face it, doing laundry for the first time is damn scary and we need to know about that too.
So what do you think? That are the differences between YA and NA?
So what are the differences between YA and NA?
For me, it all boils down to the central question of the book.
YA is all about discovering who you want to become.
NA is discovering how the person you've decided you want to be fits into the world.
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In The Hunger Games, Katniss does anything to protect herself for most of the novel but when she is forced to kill Peeta to win, she decides they will both kill themselves rather than be forced to kill each other. She learns that she cares for him and that shapes the rest of the series.
In Shatter Me, Juliette feels like she deserves to be locked up because her touch can kill but when she realizes she can't hurt Adam, she decides to see herself differently which allows her to fight for her life.
In If I Stay, Mia isn't sure whether she should let go and die when her entire family dies, but through listening how her friends and family see her, she decides to stay.
All of these stories allow the characters to see themselves in a different light which allows them to become who they are. They discover the type of people they want to become and prove it by actively becoming these people in the end.
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In YA, the characters recieve the means to grow up. They find the path they want to take. I think NA explores them going down that path. It tests the people they discovered and sometimes it changes them.
I've been holding off my judgement on this emerging category because I wasn't sure it would last but I've decided I don't care. I love that authors are writing stories for the scary time between transitioning from living at home with minimal responsibility to living on your own with all of it. Because let's face it, doing laundry for the first time is damn scary and we need to know about that too.
So what do you think? That are the differences between YA and NA?
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Waiting on Wednesday: Unbreakable and Deception
Waiting on Wednesday is a weekly meme hosted by Jill of Breaking the Spine where you can post about upcoming books you're looking forward to. This is a wonderful chance for blogger to show off what's coming out soon that they are excited about! Every week my wishlist balloons thanks to this awesome meme.
Unbreakable by Kami Garcia
I never believed in ghosts. Until one tried to kill me.Unbreakable is out October 1,2013.
When Kennedy Waters finds her mother dead, her world begins to unravel. She doesn't know that paranormal forces in a much darker world are the ones pulling the strings. Not until identical twins Jared and Lukas Lockhart break into Kennedy's room and destroy a dangerous spirit sent to kill her. The brothers reveal that her mother was part of an ancient secret society responsible for protecting the world from a vengeful demon -- a society whose five members were all murdered on the same night.
Now Kennedy has to take her mother's place in the Legion if she wants to uncover the truth and stay alive. Along with new Legion members Priest and Alara, the teens race to find the only weapon that might be able to destroy the demon -- battling the deadly spirits he controls every step of the way.
Suspense, romance, and the paranormal meet in this chilling urban fantasy, the first book in a new series from Kami Garcia, bestselling coauthor of the Beautiful Creatures novels.
Part of the allure with this one, at least for me, is that I want to try and figure out Garcia's writing style separate from Stohl. But I think the plot sounds exciting in this one and I like that we are bringing back supernatural creatures into the dangerous zone.
Deception by C.J. Redwine
Baalboden has been ravaged. The brutal Commander's whereabouts are unknown. And Rachel, grief stricken over her father's death, needs Logan more than ever. With their ragged group of survivors struggling to forge a future, it's up to Logan to become the leader they need—with Rachel by his side. Under constant threat from rival Carrington's army, who is after the device that controls the Cursed One, the group decides to abandon the ruins of their home and take their chances in the Wasteland.
But soon their problems intensify tenfold: someone—possibly inside their ranks—is sabotaging the survivors, picking them off one by one. The chaos and uncertainty of each day puts unbearable strain on Rachel and Logan, and it isn't long before they feel their love splintering. Even worse, as it becomes clear that the Commander will stop at nothing to destroy them, the band of survivors begins to question whether the price of freedom may be too great—and whether, hunted by their enemies and the murderous traitor in their midst, they can make it out of the Wasteland alive.
In this daring sequel to Defiance, with the world they once loved forever destroyed, Rachel and Logan must decide between a life on the run and standing their ground to fight.Deception is out August 27, 2013.
I'm excited about this one becqause I loved the first novel. Can't wait to find out what is going to happen to Rachel and Logan!
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
What they say about "One Door Closing"
This week, a door closed for me. Now, when these things happen, I tend to fixate on the negative implications. No matter how many other doors remain open, no matter how many eggs I have in different baskets, I zero in on the one that is suddenly gone. I've always done this. As a kid if I was given 10 M&M's and I decide to eat one, I'd freak out about the one that was gone instead of realizing I have 9 left.
That's why it is difficult for me to be a writer. I don't mind constructive criticism because I've learned to find the gems in it. I can accept that how I write, what I want to say and the characters in my head won't appeal to everyone. I don't even mind if someone doesn't like what I've written.
But what I find hardest to deal with is not focusing on a lost oppurtinity and I don't think I'm alone.
When I was in high school, I was part of a very focused and fantastic choir. We sang together, sweat and cried together and bleed together. We worked hard. Those endless hours of practice and forfeit weekends made us close to each other and our director. At the end of the year, our director gave out awards to all of us for different things and he also gave us a piece of advice. To this day, I don't remember what my award was for (probably for organization or something) but I do remember the advice because it is something I struggle with daily. He said: "Amber, don't sweat the small stuff. Don't focus on the little things you can't help but focus on the big picture and all the things you've accomplished."
These simple words encapsulate my entire delimma today. I have more than enough doors open to me right now. More than I've ever had before and that is something to be proud of. But because I got the news that one of these doors have closed, I'm feeling a little down even though it is something I can't control. Even though it is something small in the big picture.
But as each of these doors close, they are teaching me something. They are teaching me that I can handle the small details going wrong and something beautiful can bloom from the next door over. It's teaching me that I have written something that I believe in even if a thousand more doors close. It is teaching me that I don't have to sweat the small stuff. And it has made me richer for it.
So today I am stopping. I'm not going to let myself worry about one small thing when there are so many other things to be thankful for. And I'm not just applying it to my writing. I'm applying it to my life.
So here are the three things I learned today:
1) Sometimes the old sayings are true. When one door closes, a new one opens.
2) You have to believe in yourself or no one else will.
3) You really don't have to sweat the small stuff.
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That's why it is difficult for me to be a writer. I don't mind constructive criticism because I've learned to find the gems in it. I can accept that how I write, what I want to say and the characters in my head won't appeal to everyone. I don't even mind if someone doesn't like what I've written.
But what I find hardest to deal with is not focusing on a lost oppurtinity and I don't think I'm alone.
When I was in high school, I was part of a very focused and fantastic choir. We sang together, sweat and cried together and bleed together. We worked hard. Those endless hours of practice and forfeit weekends made us close to each other and our director. At the end of the year, our director gave out awards to all of us for different things and he also gave us a piece of advice. To this day, I don't remember what my award was for (probably for organization or something) but I do remember the advice because it is something I struggle with daily. He said: "Amber, don't sweat the small stuff. Don't focus on the little things you can't help but focus on the big picture and all the things you've accomplished."
These simple words encapsulate my entire delimma today. I have more than enough doors open to me right now. More than I've ever had before and that is something to be proud of. But because I got the news that one of these doors have closed, I'm feeling a little down even though it is something I can't control. Even though it is something small in the big picture.
But as each of these doors close, they are teaching me something. They are teaching me that I can handle the small details going wrong and something beautiful can bloom from the next door over. It's teaching me that I have written something that I believe in even if a thousand more doors close. It is teaching me that I don't have to sweat the small stuff. And it has made me richer for it.
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So here are the three things I learned today:
1) Sometimes the old sayings are true. When one door closes, a new one opens.
2) You have to believe in yourself or no one else will.
3) You really don't have to sweat the small stuff.
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